Has your girlfriend been acting strange lately? Not calling you as much… feeling a little distant? snapping at you when you say certain things?
well, my guy there is a big problem here and you need to rectify the situation before she leaves you my guy. let me just run through the warning signs your girlfriend will give out and which will indicate that she’s getting bored and ready to move on. Now there are two things that could happen in this situation:
1. She finally breaks up with you because you didn’t read the signs and did something about it.
2. She stays with you, but starts cheating on you behind your back. I am sure we can both agree on the fact that this is the worse of the two, but you don’t want either to happen do you?
When she’s with you there’s no “connection” and it kinda feels like she’s being distant. She’ll be more quiet than normal, less enthusiastic to see you when you haven’t seen each other for a while and not as into your conversations like she was when you first met.
When you first started dating, she would respond to your texts almost immediately, pick up the phone when you called and reply with funny/witty messages. But now… she’s responding with one word messages, not answering when you call and taking a few hours to respond. Obviously you wouldn’t expect your girlfriend to pickup or text back right away every time, but if it’s always non-responsive… then my guy this fire is already steaming your mountain.
my guy if you offer to chill with her like going to see a movie or grabbing a bite to eat and she’s already made plans with her friends on more occasions than she’s been out with you… then wahala dey oh. This shows that you’re just not any fun or interesting to her anymore and she sees going out with you as a chore.
If you were supposed to meet or she didn’t answer the phone after multiple calls or she came home late (if you’re living with her) from a night out without telling you she was out for the night (this is common courtesy, not a father daughter complex) then makes lame excuses as to why she didn’t call etc… this is a big warning sign. There’s no respect on her side for you and to her you seem replaceable.
When you’re talking to each other, she will pick a fight over the smallest things just to release her frustration and anger towards you. Now there’s no reason why she’s doing this, except that she’s bored with your personality now… there’s no spark, excitement or mystery (yaff turn to otondo).
Create some excitement – You need to bring back the personality that she was once attracted to when you both met originally. Ask her what she was first attracted to and what made her like you so much, then DO THOSE THINGS.
Don’t be so needy – contrary to popular believes girls are attracted to you when you really don't have time; you need to remain independent, secure in your own self and confident at all times. If she doesn’t call you back, then pull her up on it and make a joke of it… say something like “Oh ignoring me now are you… that’s cool, I just had something really important to tell you". If this doesn't work perfectly then you might want to give her a maximum of 3 missed calls and never call her back till she returns your call. trust me she is going to freak out on you but next time she wouldn't ignore you. girls love attention and they try their best to hold on to it..
Create anticipation – By building anticipation she will be thinking about you all day and will want to rip your clothes off when you walk through the door. How do you do it? Simple, send her flirty messages that will strike intrigue and make her think sexual thoughts. Things like “…can’t wait to see you tonight, I’ve got something I need to try out on you New trick I’ve learned”. So that’s it… don’t ignore the warning signs and make sure you do something quickly before it’s too late and she leaves you bro.
Ref... La Ruina
THE WARNING SIGNS
Don't be a fool brother; whether its her time of the month or not, you need to pay close attention to her attitude and tantrums at all times. Except you don't really want her; if so you can just skip this post and find another girlfriend. anyways......1. SHE’S BECOMING INCREASINGLY DISTANT
When she’s with you there’s no “connection” and it kinda feels like she’s being distant. She’ll be more quiet than normal, less enthusiastic to see you when you haven’t seen each other for a while and not as into your conversations like she was when you first met.
2. NOT RESPONSIVE WITH CALLS/RESPONDING TO TEXTS
When you first started dating, she would respond to your texts almost immediately, pick up the phone when you called and reply with funny/witty messages. But now… she’s responding with one word messages, not answering when you call and taking a few hours to respond. Obviously you wouldn’t expect your girlfriend to pickup or text back right away every time, but if it’s always non-responsive… then my guy this fire is already steaming your mountain.
3. SHE’D RATHER GO OUT WITH HER FRIENDS THAN YOU
my guy if you offer to chill with her like going to see a movie or grabbing a bite to eat and she’s already made plans with her friends on more occasions than she’s been out with you… then wahala dey oh. This shows that you’re just not any fun or interesting to her anymore and she sees going out with you as a chore.
4. SHE MAKES LAME EXCUSES
If you were supposed to meet or she didn’t answer the phone after multiple calls or she came home late (if you’re living with her) from a night out without telling you she was out for the night (this is common courtesy, not a father daughter complex) then makes lame excuses as to why she didn’t call etc… this is a big warning sign. There’s no respect on her side for you and to her you seem replaceable.
5. SHE PICKS FIGHTS OVER SMALL THINGS
When you’re talking to each other, she will pick a fight over the smallest things just to release her frustration and anger towards you. Now there’s no reason why she’s doing this, except that she’s bored with your personality now… there’s no spark, excitement or mystery (yaff turn to otondo).
HOW TO STOP HER FROM LEAVING
Ya! ya! ya! you now know about the warning signs and you need to do something about it, but not to worry i got you my guy! most people fail to understand the simplest fact about relationships. Love is a game of strategies, and like every strategy game you need to get creative with the basics. To get your girl back you need to do the following:
Create some excitement – You need to bring back the personality that she was once attracted to when you both met originally. Ask her what she was first attracted to and what made her like you so much, then DO THOSE THINGS.
Don’t be so needy – contrary to popular believes girls are attracted to you when you really don't have time; you need to remain independent, secure in your own self and confident at all times. If she doesn’t call you back, then pull her up on it and make a joke of it… say something like “Oh ignoring me now are you… that’s cool, I just had something really important to tell you". If this doesn't work perfectly then you might want to give her a maximum of 3 missed calls and never call her back till she returns your call. trust me she is going to freak out on you but next time she wouldn't ignore you. girls love attention and they try their best to hold on to it..
Create anticipation – By building anticipation she will be thinking about you all day and will want to rip your clothes off when you walk through the door. How do you do it? Simple, send her flirty messages that will strike intrigue and make her think sexual thoughts. Things like “…can’t wait to see you tonight, I’ve got something I need to try out on you New trick I’ve learned”. So that’s it… don’t ignore the warning signs and make sure you do something quickly before it’s too late and she leaves you bro.
Ref... La Ruina
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