People Who Should Not Deliver Your Messages

Communication between individuals is very important. Saying the wrong thing at the right time is like shooting yourself in the foot. Many people lack the ability to adequately express themselves properly. Most times you say things you did not intend to say; just because you did not know how to say it properly. This post is not intended to explain effective communication; however you can read how to communicate effectively.

In this digital age, you can maybe send your messages yourself to any part of the world; making the need for sending messages through third parties minimal. However this is not always so simple.
Human relationships are so complex that, you may have to use third parties to relate your messages to others effectively. 

For instance, you want to talk to your father but you send your mother instead; why? because your father is more likely to listen to your mother (ideally). And she could relate things to him in a way he would better understand. 

Also, when arguments arise and conflicts abound the need for third parties rise drastically. In this instance, you need someone to talk to someone on your behalf; someone decides to talk on your behalf; intercede on your behalf etc. now it is all well and good that people are trying to sort arguments on your behalf but some third parties could cause more harm than intended. This is where you have to be careful about who says what on your behalf. As you read on you would find out the major kinds of people you should avoid when sending messages or letting them talk on your behalf.

·         People who insult others

Nothing adds salt to injury like insults. You could turn a calm person into a mad dog by just insulting them. When things get heated and arguments abound, individuals usually seek to defend their pride; what better way to rattle cages if not by insults. Insults could be a very useful tool in wining arguments. You can read how to win an argument. However when sending a clear message, you should avoid using people who insult others. Messengers are assumed to speak the mind of their senders and except you explicitly want to insult someone, do not send a person who insults to deliver your message. I learned this the hard way, when trying to get my ex back I sent my friend who went and flooded her life with so much insults. She immediately replied with so much insults, I could fill an encyclopedia of curses. 

·         Liars

I remember we used to sing “all liars would go to hell and burn to ashes” well buttocks!!!! They do not. Rather they stay right here on earth to make our lives miserable (if we let them). I know you must be thinking how to know when someone is lying, well you can read how to know when someone is lying. And to catch a liar you must learn to lie perfectly. You can also read how to tell a perfect lie. 

Moving on……. Never let a liar deliver your messages, chances are they would exaggerate, subtract, add and go all calculus on that message. I love to see liars as reverse encryptions (Nerds would understand) or like babies trying to make art. It’s fun to watch except when your white Givenchy is involved. Its best you say nothing than send a liar; they would never say what you tell them and worse they would not give you the exact reply. Avoid them like girls avoid heartbreaks; avoid them like guys on white avoid short girls with excessive makeup. Ooops!!!!!!  I did not mean that lol!!!!!!!!

·         People with anger issues

Had this funny friend, good guy but always so quick to get angry; maybe it was a self-esteem issue. Most angry people usually have self-esteem issues always trying to exert dominance to feel important or then again maybe they don’t just like being taking for granted. Whichever way you don’t want someone like that delivering messages for you. Again except you want to out rightly attack or beat up someone don’t send a person with anger issues; you would end up playing peace ambassador. As prestigious as that may sound I would rather avoid such and I hope you would too. I could tell you the story of how I ended up being a broomstick to two cocks playing referee for a cock fight, but then again we still have to deal with the greedy people.

·         Greedy people

The love of money they say is the root of all evil. We all love money but some more than others.  These set of greedy people are those who specifically always try to make money off every circumstance whether they are paid or not. An angry person may be a lot of work but a greedy person is dangerous and ready to sell you out and switch sides like a sports car on a high way. Don’t trust them to deliver your messages or resolve conflicts. The only interest they represent is theirs. I and a friend once had issues with some money greedy scumbags. We called in a few other supposed friends (fake friends) to mediate and all they did was to lie and divide the money within them and escalated the issue. Now everything was later resolved, but I learnt a lesson on how to spot fake friends you can read that here. The bullet from an enemy you can see coming, but that of a fake friend hits you in the blind spot. You never see it coming. You think greedy folks are bad? Well the jealous ones are the ones you should watch out for.

·         Jealous people

Jealousy is a deadly poising which creeps in slowly, steady taking over the heart. Jealousy can turn a nun into Adolph Hitler. I know you may be thinking of how to spot jealousy, you can read subtle signs of jealous. You should avoid jealous people at all cost; they can be manipulative and deadly. They lie deceive and could even set you up. stay far away from them before they drag you into serious foolishness. Jealousy is very contagious so take note. don't give them the opportunity to destroy you.

       proud people

whenever i think of proud people i always see the lion and the mountain goat. The lion is so proud and well within its right; after-all its at the top of the food chain. king of the jungle; boss of all; shaking down everybody; walking around like he owns the place, well BUTTOCKS!!!!! he does. The mountain goat however, with all its pride is just an over glorified goat meat that would end up as pepper soup to cure the mountain cold with its goatee jumping around ime!! ime!! (cowardly squealing) when real trouble breaks out. 

Again don't send a proud person to deliver your message, they value their pride more than your problem. Real trouble might just break out, then you would see the many forms of ime!! ime!! I refer to a proud person here as one who overestimates himself/herself. Not the general pride from one's accomplishments.

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