How To Never Hit Your Lady Again

Guys, ladies can be very annoying oh! And hitting them may seem like the best way to make them shut up. Well Buttocks!!! A gentle man never hits a lady no matter what (except in self-defense and you should try to make sure it’s one strike. Just knock her out. There is no point beating her up its shameful trust me. You are a man so act like it, show the world true manliness.)

A wise man takes instructions but a foolish man refuses correction. After reading this post, if you still hit your lady then you are very foolish. But then again dogs go back to eat their vomits; just as fools always repeat their foolishness.

Don’t get me wrong I am not saying these ladies are always right,

but you just don’t hit a lady because you feel the need to show her dominance. Most homes get broken because of domestic violence against women. Children get emotionally wrecked for life and in some cases death. Children build up hatred for their fathers that last a lifetime; nursing evil intentions that they sometimes act upon. Back in high school I had this friend who wanted to kill his father, he didn’t though but he just might have if well motivated. Watching your mother being beaten is enough motivation to just kill that man. You want to reach for the closest object and just cave his head in. well if you feel that way, then you must resist it at all cost. You should read how to cope with a wife-beater father.As much as we all try to deny it, our animal nature is very prevalent. The lions for example: when males attack the lioness her cubs react; weak as they may be they still react. Their manliness roars out in anger trying to defend their pride. The same applies to us humans.

Why men beat their ladies

To practice these principles you must first understand why men beat their ladies. I could go on about the different reasons men give for beating their ladies but again Buttocks!!!!! They are jealous and these ladies just annoy them the hell out.

 All men are jealous, they hate seeing their ladies talk to any other guy. The jealousy is magnified by 100% when she smiles with the other guy, when she laughs with the other guy 200%, it’s even worse when he touches her. An angry guy is dangerous but a jealous guy is even worse. He loses his sense of reasoning.

Yeah!!! Guy I know what you may be thinking right now. They don’t understand, anytime you complain she just plays the “you don’t trust me card”. It’s so annoying; ladies feel that provided they are not cheating with the guy then you have nothing to worry about. Yet you don’t trust that guy; I get it!!!! It’s so frustrating. The weird calls she receives; the male friends she texts. Whatsapp makes it annoying, Facebook doesn’t help either; don’t even go to Instagram: “you are so gorgeous” “oh baby” “look at those curves” “can I get your number?” these are just a few of the things which eats you up, I get it!!! You bury all this deep down inside you. You keep it locked up. You don’t want to say anything. No one would understand but at any slight provocation you lose it. You get angry at the cup she didn’t keep well; the answer she didn’t give well. I know you must be thinking on how to deal with this jealousy. Well!!! Jealousy is a complicated issue and as such is addressed in this post how to deal with jealousy in relationships.For now, just note that jealousy is one of the main reasons why guys beat their ladies.

Moving on!!! Ladies can be so annoying; they punch, kick, slap and literarily get in your face when they don’t get what they want. Most guys take it as a threat against their ego and react in kind. Can you make them stop being so annoying? Well I don’t know that one oh!!! Lol!!! It’s easier to grab the wind in your hands or pass a camel through the eyes of a needle than it is to calm them. It’s their nature; there is nothing you can do about it. The sooner you accept this fact, the sooner you can get yourself together and stop falling into their trap. Yes I said TRAP.

It’s the ultimate trap against men. Ladies want to be loved, cared for, petted and treated like a baby. And yes they are babies; your babies. The sooner you learn to treat them as such the better. Babies cry and complain when they want something, most scatter everywhere but yet you understand that they are doing this because they need something. So you have to understand that she hardly means most of what she says. She is just complaining, waiting patiently for you to beat and pet her after. Ladies always want to be right; they love being right. The ultimate trap they set is to annoy you till you do wrong and end up being the one who is at fault. No one cares about your reason ones you beat her, she can play 11 men on a football pitch and even throw in the subs while she’s at it(pun intended LOL!!!!). Immediately you lift your hands against her, she would gladly break open her fountains; like a thousand waterfalls she would rain down those tears and suddenly everything she did, all your reasons for hitting her, would slowly fade into the noise of her tears. You now become the monster. These ladies are ingenious, the ultimate trap ever. Whichever way you are still going to pet and beg her so why turn into a monster and destroy your reputation?

Now finally how do you avoid hitting her?

Harsh words stir up angry feelings. No matter the amount of self-control you think you have, once she starts nagging she would say things to get you angry. I say ignore her at first but she would just keep on getting harsher with her words. You should give her space; go out; take a walk; chill with the guys. But take note don’t leave angrily, leave peacefully run away if you have to. You have to have it at the back of your mind that her storm of troubles has started and its best to wait it out rather than fight it. If you stay angry you would get into trouble sooner or later. You have to stay calm at all costs. I know, some ladies might even lock you indoors its normal, they get very desperate when they need attention. They are like crack junkies looking for the closest fix. How do you go about it when she locks you in? Well this is one thing you must avoid at all cost. Trouble starts gradually like a water leak, so leave before she goes crazy. If you can’t leave the house, leave the room. Lock yourself in your study, toilet kitchen balcony etc. just separate yourself from her. Take your earpiece while you’re at it. Again remember don’t get angry when she is angry you will fall into her trap.

When she calms down she would start telling you to open the door or call and text you to come back. Mind you, you must resist her accusations don’t reply her text when she starts saying you’ve gone to meet someone else. If she calls let her know you are with the guys. She would understand, though she would still bring it up during pillow talk.

If you do go out, get her something she would like. Flowers and chocolate if she is into such, sharwarma if she likes; a gown, a bracelet, a shoe, a necklace but not a ring except you are ready; if she already has one then no need except you want to upgrade it to the kind that would make her friends jealous. You would have to apologise, call her sweet names and pet her. Don’t dwell on who is right or wrong, you can tell her what you didn’t like during pillow talk and she would apologise.

In summary to avoid hitting her, give her SPACE, STAY CALM, DON’T GET ANGRY and REMOVE PRIDE.

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